The Three Deceptions

The memories around the three Deceptions

Originally posted by maria_mahar

SD & zoya  can u explain me this im confused about that '.?

1)Are RK still love Deepli ? OR He thinking  that he don't deserved madhu love?

 in previous epi Deepali  said to Rk she know she is only girl living in his heart. He only loved her '..( yah its looking true what Deepli said ) after Deepli RK not allow any ,girl live his heart ,

5 year is long time '.

It means RK loves with Deepali was deep & true love '..

RK still not love madhu

Means deepali is RK first & last love ?

 2) RK said he used his brain when choosing madhu, meaning she is a honest person, RK admitted  that madhu is honest person than why not he believe her ..

Maria,

Every serious relationship when contact or original shape of it is non-existent, it then becomes a memory to us in time. Just a memory. Then some we are wilful enough to forget even the memories, so we destroy the physical items around that relationship such as tokens of love, gifts etc and sometimes, we change ourselves to. Still few memories have to be preserved just for sanity in order to know what happened to us in that phase of life and how I changed or was affected kind of factual requirement, its like mental case filing in the cabinet of our mind.

If the hurt around serious relationships is not replaced by good healthy feelings, things will remain pretty sticky, like sticky post-its.

RK three serious relationships made by his heart - parents and Dipali are a symbol of deception to him. He has made them memories. He destroyed lot of physical meaning for them. One is dead, second is metaphorically dead and third is living rememberance of how he could he have been a fool. So he is not laying importance on people, he is giving importance to the deceptive feeling he received.

Until his mind starts seeing new sap coming his way, that is bringing fresh perspective and making him see that he is not a fool, but a deserving candidate who had to go through all that pain to see a new found nectar of sweetness, he will not appear as normal person. So Madhu is that bringer of nectar, who is forcing him to drink it. He will drink it...

Maria, when understanding any character, we need to step into their shoes and understand them and when being analytical about their strengths and weakness, we step out of their shoes and talk about them. Becomes easy.